4-Month Men’s Tao Tantra Initiation – Fall 2026

Most men think better sex or a new partner will finally make them feel connected.

But connection isn’t something you find.
It’s something you remember — in your body.
And the amazing Tantric sex comes after….

This four-month men’s Tantra initiation is where that remembering begins.

The journey from loneliness to aliveness — from shame to strength — from desire to awakening.

And BTW we want to set you up to win… The EarlyBird also includes something even better – a 1:1 session with both Steve and with Benji. Don’t miss out!

What This Really Is

Not another workshop.
Not group therapy.
Not hookup culture wrapped in incense.

This is a men’s Tantric initiation starting you on a path of growth that shifts how you experience your own sexual energy. The tantric path can shift how you live in your body, how you relate to touch, and how deeply can you trust. Most importantly, tantra can help you discover new layers of yourself and what you truly need out of life, so that your emotional and sexual connections are truly energizing and supportive.

Through personalized one-2-one sessions and a series of powerful workshops, you don’t just intellectually “learn Tantra” you start to embody Tantra in 3 short months.

You will come away with an intimate understanding of your erotic energy as a source of healing and connection, able to create encounters that leave you nourished and alive instead of tired or depleted.

We age-balance the group as much as possible and screen participants for readiness.

Whether you’re 28 or 78, you’ll be surrounded by men who came for the same reason you did: to feel real again.

The Four Initiations

1. Masculine Erotic Embodiment

You will learn practices that help your body feel alive, responsive, and ready for deeper connection with other men.

• Learn to let your body feel and express emotions
• Learn to let in another man’s touch
• Learn ways awaken your nervous system more fully
• Cultivate and celebrate the erotic energy moving through you

2. Dropping the Armor

In this workshop, we work to unravel shame and performance so you can allow yourself to be seen more deeply and experience levels of sexual intimacy 99% of people never know.

Some of us walk through life with our heads down, not quite feeling worthy. Or perhaps you are more the armored type. Trying to look confident. Trying to impress. Trying not to let anyone see how much you crave connection.

This initiation gives your body a different experience:

• Learn to let your body and self be seen without performance.
• Replace the inner critic with curiosity.
• Experience touch that says, “you are already enough.”
• Intimacy. The kind you’ve fantasized about but never quite found in conventional dating.

You will come away more open, more relaxed in yourself, and more able to show up with men in a real way.

3. Orgasm and Transformation

An initiation into erotic energy as a healing force that moves through the whole body, not just the genitals.

Learn to transform sexual energy into healing.
Learn how to be sexual without ejaculating.
Bring your whole body alive, witnessed and loved by other men.

You will come away as a man who knows how to circulate, expand, and share sexual energy so that intimacy feels deep and satisfying instead of short, draining, or empty.

Note: If you have ever believed you could not learn this, you will feel that story fall away. You will experience it in your own body and leave with simple practices to repeat at home. With relaxed, steady practice, most men become multiorgasmic within one to three months, no matter their age. This is why our Initiation is 4 months long – to give you time and support to actually reach your goals of becoming a multiorgasmic Tantric man.

4. Sexual Energy as a Path to Real Connection

A full-bodied integration where desire, breath, and presence become pathways to authentic connection with another man.

• Discover how to let another man in while respecting yourself.
• Awaken a turn-on that nourishes instead of empties.
• Attract from authenticity, not effort.
• Experience mutual Tantric energy exchange with a man who is fully present with you. (This feels amazing, btw)

PS: We are considering hosting a Temple Night or other closing ritual to celebrate our 4 months together, if the group is interested.

Facilitation Team:

Benji: An experienced gay men’s coach and founder of Triangle Gay Men’s Tantra, Benji has a Diploma in Tantra from Tantra4GayMen and an M.A. in Transpersonal Counseling Psychotherapy from Naropa University. Benji is a former Peace Corps volunteer with 15 years experience with healing modalities including Authentic Relating, Brazilian Spiritist energy healing, and Tantric Buddhism. Benji can be reached by text message at (303) 847-5263.

Steve: A teacher of qigong, Taoist men’s vitality practices, and Tantra for over twenty years. He is a senior instructor in Healing Tao and currently serves on Mantak Chia’s Council of Nine advisors for Universal Healing Tao. Steve also has 30 years experience in martial arts, and has done extensive personal work in other traditions including ISTA, plant medicine, and shamanic de-armoring. Steve can be reached at steve@primalspring.org.

Together Benji and Steve have developed a version of Tao Tantra — a synthesis integrating Tantra, Taoist Alchemy, Authentic Relating, and Men’s Work into original material that shows how words can be as intimate as touch—and how touch deepens through presence and alignment and cultivation of our inner sexual Truth.

Program Details

Format: 4 Saturday immersions | 9:30 am–6:00 pm
Dates: We plan to announce the Fall, 2026 dates by the end of January.

Group Welcome Call: Saturday,  Date TBD  | 7:00-8:00pm – Meet the Group & Get Excited

Immersion 1: Fall, 2026

Immersion 2: TBD

Immersion 3: TBD

Immersion 4: TBD

Please plan to attend all dates. You may miss up to 1 (but why would you want to?). If a rain/snow date is needed, this will be scheduled on a date all are available.

All attendees must attend the first session to be part of the program.

No attendees will be allowed to join the series after the first session.

Location: Durham / Chapel Hill area, to be announced to attendees 2 weeks prior to the course starting. The size of the group on that date will determine which meeting location we will use.

Cohort Size: Limited to 14 men. We expect to sell out – register early.

The series is confirmed if there are 10 men registered by July 5.

Tuition: $990 for the full journey
(includes private intro sessions + welcome call)

Sliding scale & payment plans available

Includes:

• Group welcome call
• Integration resources and community support
• 4 full-day Men’s Tantra sessions in Raleigh-Durham area
• A cohort of inspired tantric men ready to learn together

We can potentially host several people who wish to fly in from out of town for the series. Travelers welcome.

EarlyBird Bonus

Attendees who register before July 5 also receive:

• Private 90-minute intimacy coaching session & reading with Benji ($300 value)
• Private 90-minute Introductory Multiorgasmic Tao Tantra training with Steve with related videos and materials  ($300 value)

Note: These sessions will preferably be completed during the course of the 4-month Initiation.

Other Benefits:

• Access to Triangle Gay Men’s Tantra Meetup
  

• Meet Prerequisites for Advanced Tantra Training with Us
  

• Become Part of the Most Active Men’s Tantra Community on the East Coast
  

• Become a Tantric Lover!

Screening & Safety:
Every participant completes a short intake conversation where we answer your questions and go over group norms.

We hope to create a space where you can relax, be fully yourself, and know enough coming in to feel at ease.

Who It’s For

Men who are …
• Curious about Tantra and embodiment—no experience needed.
• Ready to move beyond shame, porn loops, or surface connection.
• Longing for brotherhood that honors both strength and tenderness.
• Seeking mentors and peers who value authenticity over performance.

Younger or older, single or partnered—if you feel the pull, you belong here.

What to expect

• Tantric connection: Body-and-soul connections with other brothers that invite heart, clarity, and growth.
• Taoist vitality practices: Daily breath, movement, and meditation warm-ups that cultivate vitality and sexual energy.
• Inner alchemy: Practices to harmonize and balance your emotions, so that your soul can emerge and steer.
• Authentic relating: Get past surface conversation into meaningful connection with all participants.
• Group support: An experience of brotherhood that invites heart, clarity, and growth.

What you’ll take home

• A new, deeper erotic life.
• A more grounded ‘you’ that can let your soul and not your emotions steer.
• Better health and sexual vitality.
• Daily practices to continue building on your gains.
• A brotherhood of men you can return to.

Ready to Step In?

There’s a moment when old patterns stop working—when your body whispers, “I’m ready for more.”

If you feel that stirring—
join us.
Four months. Four initiations. One brotherhood.

Reserve Your Spot → (Limited to 14 men – screening call required)

EarlyBird Bonus

Attendees who register before January 5 also receive:

• Private 90-minute intimacy coaching session & reading with Benji ($300 value)
• Private 90-minute Introductory Multiorgasmic Tao Tantra training with Steve with related videos and materials  ($300 value)

Note: These sessions will preferably be completed during the course of the 4-month Initiation

Please contact Steve at steve@primalspring.org or by text 919-619-1531 for more info or simply register here to attend.

This is a one-of-a-kind course, with a curriculum we do not plan to repeat this year. Come join us!

Love and Hugs,

Steve and Benji