The Weekly Men’s Group runs for 10 consecutive Monday evenings, 6–8 PM, in Durham. It’s for men who have been to at least one intro workshop and want to go deeper — building a regular practice and real friendships with a consistent circle of men.

Each session has the same structure: we open with tantric breathwork, move into a long hug practice, and then settle into deep discussion. Simple. Consistent. Surprisingly transformational over time.

You’ll build a real practice — not just attend events. The men who get the most from Tantra are the ones who show up regularly, week after week, until something in them actually shifts.

Every session opens with 20 minutes of tantric breathwork. Breath is how we arrive — how we leave the workday behind and drop into the body. Over 10 weeks, you’ll develop a real breathwork practice you can take into your daily life.

Long, intentional hugs with other men. Not performative — practiced. The hug portion teaches you how to receive care and give it without agenda. Many men describe this as one of the most healing things they do all week.

The final hour is discussion. Not therapy — but real talk about what’s alive in your life: relationships, sexuality, self-mastery, what you want and don’t know how to ask for. Men supporting each other with honesty and care.

When: Monday evenings, 6:00–8:00 PM · 10 consecutive weeks

Where: Durham, NC — private home. Address sent to registered participants.

Cost: $225 for the full 10-week series. Sliding scale available — text Benji before registering.

Who it’s for: Men who have attended at least one TGMT intro workshop. Open to gay, bi, queer, and same-sex-attracted men.

Size: Small group — space is limited each round to keep the intimacy real.

Sessions run seasonally. Each series has its own focus and theme. Join the mailing list to hear about the next session before it fills.